Getting a tattoo

I want a tattoo of a fairy with butterfly wings, to represent a change in my life and that I'm beautiful the way I am, but I'm scared to do it, I know my parents wont approve it (hey that's new lol) and I know it is painful to do it, so I'm waiting a little bit to do it.
I went with my sweetie to a tatto shop last night he got a new tattoo of a spider web, it is very cool and while I was waiting I saw this 2 design and I love the first one, I want to combine the 2 of them for my tattoo